Let’s Talk About Sex - Giving Commands

In this episode Aggie and I break down the role of commands in our Dominant/Submissive relationship. I think commands go beyond basic instructions—they’re key tools that create connection, establish control, and deepen intimacy. They shape our dynamic, setting the tone and reinforcing the power exchange in and out of the bedroom.

For the submissive, following commands can be an act of surrender and a way to express their desire to please. We’ve found that integrating commands into everyday life—not just during scenes—keeps our D/s dynamic alive and hot as fuck.

We also discuss the importance of timing and context. A well-timed command can elevate the submissive’s experience, but the same command at the wrong moment can cause discomfort. It’s all about being observant and attuned to each other’s emotional state, which makes the dynamic more responsive and fulfilling.

I will tell you how commands can build anticipation and keep the connection strong, using simple directives to engage the submissive’s mindset throughout the day. Commands can also be used for emotional regulation, helping to shift moods and provide a sense of grounding within the D/s relationship.

Tune in to listenhow I use commands to enhance my Dominant/Submissive relationship, keeping the connection dynamic, fluid, and deeply engaging.

-Adam