Let’s Talk About Sex - Orgasm Control

In this episode, Aggie and I dig into orgasm control—a powerful tool in Dominant/Submissive relationships that’s often overlooked. It’s more than just denying an orgasm; it’s about keeping both partners in a heightened state of arousal, which deepens intimacy and strengthens the dynamic.

I willtell you a bit how orgasm control creates a psychological edge in ourD/s relationship. It’s not just about physical acts; it’s about a dominant maintaining influence even outside the bedroom. This control keeps the submissive mentally engaged, reinforcing their role and connection throughout daily life.

We also dive into the emotional security that comes from constant arousal. When we are focused on eachother’s pleasure—or the denial of it—everyday stress and conflicts feel less significant. There’s always a sexual undercurrent that helps keep the connection strong, even in tough moments.

I will tell you how the simplicity of restraint and how small acts of dominance, like a firm grip or a guiding touch, can be as impactful as elaborate scenes. It’s about finding those raw, spontaneous moments that reinforce the power dynamic without the need for props.

We will paint you a nice picture how orgasm control turns our everyday interactions into a form of ongoing foreplay! Without regular release, we’re always in a state of readiness, making every touch or glance part of a larger, continuous sexual dialogue. Seriously - It’s a way to keep the connection alive and charged (you must try it!!!!!!)

Tune in to hear how orgasm control has transformed our D/s dynamic, enhancing our intimacy and redefining how we experience pleasure and power.

-Adam