Why we DON’T use Rules in our Dom/sub Relationship

In this episode, Aggie and I sit talk about something that often comes up in D/s relationships: rules. Spoiler alert—neither of us is a fan of rigid guidelines. Instead, we share why our dynamic thrives on clear expectations, mutual respect, and an intuitive understanding of each other, rather than a long list of dos and don’ts.

We’ll discuss how rules, while appealing to some, can sometimes get in the way of our connection and spontaneity. From playful moments of authority to recognizing when a situation needs more tenderness, our focus is always on staying present with each other rather than being tied to strict protocols. Aggie and I reflect on how this approach keeps our relationship fluid and sexy, without restrictions.

-Adam